Question:
How do I stop my 10 week-old kitten from biting my hand when I pet her?
2008-05-24 23:21:49 UTC
My new kitten is extreamly lovable, though very frisky. She climbs all over the funature like a spider, and runs around with my 8 month old cat, Dwight.
She often seeks me out, and starts purring once I pick her up or when she jumps on my lap and I will start to pet her. She never stops purring but after a few seconds she will start to bite my fingers. At first I thought this teething and would just pull my hand away, but she has been using her hind legs to try and scratch me as well. Wehn she does one or both of these I place her back on the floor with a cat toy for her to chew on, which she usually tries to come back to me again. I don't know why she does this, but I would love to hear some ways to encourage her to stop. I've had her for two weeks and she hasn't let up yet. Any advice on how to make her stop this behavior? Thanks in advance!
Ten answers:
2008-05-25 04:57:24 UTC
it sounds to me that the kitten is in the learning phase...



At that age, when they play with their siblings and get to rough, the "victim" will defend itself, protest loudly and bite back. At this age they are learning about something called "bite inhibition", this means they are learning how hard they can bite without causing damage.



So when it is playing with you and gets too rough, pinch him in the ear or another soft spot and say AUA! or STOP! he will learn his limits and that AUA or STOP means "let go!" . Just as he will be slightly shocked and stop biting pet him to show everything is OK.



If you have the chance, try to watch a cat family with young kittens play. It can get pretty rough, specially when the mommy gets annoyed...
Kelly + Eternal Universal Energy
2008-05-25 07:57:51 UTC
Kittens are just like that.. I am fostering 8 right now and they do the same. I also have 3 adult cats of my own and the best way I have found to stop them from chewing on your hands is to blow on their face. Whenever the kitten bites or claws your hand, blow right in their face and they will stop. Do the same thing every time they bite you and eventually they will learn not to bite!



It's easy, gentle and effective and it has worked on every cat I have ever had.. none of mine bite at all.



Mostly it's just play and love bites, but if you don't stop it now she will continue. I allow my cats to play with my hands gently, if they use any claw or tooth, they get a blow in the face. It works.. try it out!



PS Make sure it's a firm short blast of air, right in the face.. you'll see it works instantly. You can still give her back your hand but every time she gets too rough, blow again.. repeat when you need to. Cats are very smart and she will learn fast that if she doesn't want to get blown away she needs to be gentle!
2008-05-25 06:34:05 UTC
Try to take the cat toy and use it in place of your hand with the kitten. Kind of like pulling a rope from a dog, or trying to. That type of thing. She just wants to play.

My kitten was the exact same way. I learned to wear long-sleeves and get a pretty decent sized cat toy and then I would proceed to hop on the floor and roll around with him and give him the toy and then start yanking it back.



It really isn't your hand that is so much the target but rather the simple act of playing directly with you. Besides, Girls Just Wanna Have Fun !! So go have it !!
2008-05-25 16:18:30 UTC
Young kittens between the ages of 3 weeks old and 8 months old will be teething off and on, and will have very strong needs to bite. Just like baby children, kittens are born without teeth, start getting their first baby teeth at about 3-4 weeks old, then they will lose their baby teeth and have their adult teeth come in up until the age of about 8 months old. So the trick here is not to keep them from biting; but rather, to provide them appropriate items to bite. We use heavy-duty plastic drinking straws with our kittens (being careful to cut off any bitten ends and discard the entire straw before it becomes dangerous, as with any toy), and train them from the start that toys and straws are purr-rectly fine to bite, but human body parts are off-limits! If a kitten learns this from the start, there is hardly ever an inappropriate biting behavior as an adult. Some cats start biting out of frustration after they have been de-clawed. Some cats start biting out of misplaced aggression, which usually can be countered by providing the cat a feline playmate, and/or providing them more cat toys, cat furniture, and making their environment more stimulating for them. For a cat with a serious biting problem, often the quickest way to teach them not to bite you is to immediately blow on his face, as soon as you realize he is biting or is about to bite you. Saying "NO!" firmly at the same time reinforces this training. At all times, it is critical that you be thinking and acting on the firm belief that "toys and straws are for biting; human hands are for giving and receiving love".





Don't assume automatically that cats that bite are vicious creatures. You must distinct between play-biting and real aggressive biting. Kittens for example like to play, and sometimes pretty rough. They use their claws and teeth to wrestle with each other. They prepare for catching prey and that’s normal. They usually go unharmed because their fur protects them from serious wounds. However, human skin is a different story, but kittens don't know that.



Problem

When you stroke your kitten it can take it as an invitation to play and clasps your hand and bites. That might hurt a little but is generally nothing to worry about. Some cats make a sport out of leg biting. They jump up on you and dig in. research has show that it’s a sort of unsatisfied hunting and prey instinct and lack of activity.



Solution

• Teach your kitten from an early age that hands are for feeding and stroking and NOT a toy!

• Avoid playing with your bare hands

• Use a fluffy toy or a feather on a string instead

• In case it grabs your hand, draw it away slowly and do NOT punish your cat, it will understand it as an attack and make matters worse

• However if you cat did scratch or hurt you in any way, make a yowling sound and show that you have been hurt, your cat will understand

• If your cat is a "leg biter" try to spend more time playing with it and redirect its attack to a toy. Leave toys lying around so that he can also amuse itself, particular when you keep your cat indoors
nodotdotdot
2008-05-25 06:33:28 UTC
It sounds like she part be Maine Coon...



Anyway, she's trying to play, but it's behavior that should be stopped. Don't pull away...instead, push gently but firmly against her, then leave the room or the area she's in for a few minutes. If she's feeling really frisky, get a toy out instead of petting her.
Jess
2008-05-25 07:04:10 UTC
Your doing everything right. It seems as if she is just trying to play with you and that is her way of it. If you continue to do as you are doing instead of encouraging her behavior she will quickly grow out of it. You could also try to play with her with a feather toy and let her know that she can play with you this way instead of biting your hand. Good luck!
2008-05-25 06:36:28 UTC
I believe that's mainly playing rather than literally biting . kittens are extremely naughty and they happen to like to bite anything which moves continuously . She likes to bite your finger and prefers to bite your finger rather than any toy , because she likes you ,and likes to play with you , not something which does not move that much such as a toy .

As kittens become cats they happen to be more calm and less naughty . so your kitten also will eventually stop doing it . but notice ! she loves you and what you think of as biting is nothing but playing to her !

Best wishes for your feline family !
♥ Carrielynne ♥
2008-05-25 07:14:18 UTC
They do that out of affection, it is not something they are doing to be mean in the slightest. I would suggest when she does it, hold her so she can't do it and pet her, if you show her that you don't want affection like that she will eventually get the point.

Giving her a toy or a treat may only enforce it as she may think she is getting rewarded for it.
www.johnjewel.com
2008-05-25 06:44:40 UTC
Physically keep your hand away !
2008-05-25 06:26:35 UTC
you can try train her with treats. if she does it don't reward her. if she does give her a treat.


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