My friends all have domestic short hairs - I notice when we come over, they RUN as fast as they can when we come in. They don't want to be pet and will run if we try to get close to them. They keep to themselves and could care less about anyone around them...I'm looking for the COMPLETE OPPOSITE of that! I know you won't know what your kitty's personality will be but is there a breed out there (that doesn't cost a lot of $$) that I can get with a loving, cuddly personality? I want to be able to pick up my cat, sit on the couch with it, and would like the kitty to want be around me, as well as guests in the house. Any suggestions?